THis makes me laugh out loud, for real. The Celebrity photos are my favorite!!!

IT IS HERE!! THIS IS OFFICIALLY MY FAVORITE CHRISTINA TUNE OFF OF THE BIONIC ALBUM. COPY AND PASTE THE LINK, WATCH THE VIDEO AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3pojsyvoqU

YESTERDAY I STEPPED OUT OF MY BOX A LITTLE BIT BY DOING SOMETHING I USED TO DO ALOT, BUT HAVEN’T IN A VERY LONG TIME. I’M NOT GONNA DISCLOSE WHAT IT IS ( NO IT ISN’T ANYTHING ILLEGAL, OR RELATED TO THINGS OF A NEGATIVE NATURE),BUT I WANTED TO SAY THAT SOMETIMES YOU GOTTA TAKE ON THE CHALLENGE. IF YOU’RE LOOKING TO REALLY GROW AS A PERSON, YOU HAVE TO TAKE RISKS AND DO THINGS YOU MAY BE AFRAID OF DOING. YOU’VE GOT TO STAND UP!
I AM VERY PROUD OF MYSELF AND REVELING IN A STATE OF FEARLESSNESS. YOU CAN TOO! SO, GET UP, GET OUT AND DO SOMETHING!!! BE MOTIVATED, BE FEARLESS AND BE UNIQUE BY STEPPING OUT OF YOUR BOX TO OPEN NEW DOORS!
CHEERS!

FLOP OR NOT, CONCERT OR NO CONCERT, CHRISTINA AGUILERA’S LABEL IS RIGHT WHEN THEY SAID THEY KNOW HER TALENT AND BRAND IS UNDENIABLE..AND I FULLY AGREE. I LIVE FOR THIS LADY. AND THIS IS OFFICIALLY MY FAVORITE SONG FROM HER BIONIC ALBUM. CAN’T WAIT FOR THIS VIDEO!
P.S. IS ANYONE AS EXCITED AS I AM TO BE ABLE TO SHOOT ON MY OWN DISTRAUGHT SOUNDSTAGE WITH CHARCOAL AND ASH EVERYWHERE. WHAT DREAMS ARE MADE OF. ONE DAY, ONE DAYYYYYY

BORED ON A WEDNESDAY NIGHT OR JUST DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO?? COME TO MY WEEKLY POPSTAR SHOW “POPTARTS” @ BARRACUDA BAR EVERY WED. (22ND AND 8TH)
SHOW IS @ MIDNIGHT!!

THIS WEEK IS ALL ABOUT LATINA DIVAS!! GLORIA, SHAKIRA, JLO, RICKY!!

ITS A MONDAY NIGHT AND YOU’RE BORED OR DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO IN THE CITY?!?!
COME TO MY WEEKLY YOUTUBE SHOW..”SENSATIONS” @ THERAPY BAR (52ND BTW 8TH AND 9TH)
11PM SHARP!

MY 1ST SINGLE AND MY 1ST OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO!!
MY FAVE PART IS WHEN TRAVIS WALL, IVAN KOUMAYEV AND I TEAR UP THE DANCE FLOOR RIGHT BEFORE THE BRIDGE!! SOO MUCH FUN DANCING WITH THEM.
THE SONG IS STILL AVAILABLE ON ITUNES..AND NOW THERE IS A SICKENING REMIX TOO.
THEY’RE HOT PARTY TRACKS..SO GET EM’!
AND GET READY FOR MY NEW STUFF..CAUSE ITS BANANASSSSSSSS!
BH IS MILA JAM!

VOTE FOR BRITNEY HOUSTON AS TRANS PERFORMER OF THE YEAR AT WWW.GOOTHMAG.COM

IT IS A FAIRLY NEW MAGAZINE IN THE GAY SCENE THAT UPDATES YOU ON EVENTS IN THE CITY OF NEW YORK!
YOU HAVE TIL AUG. 1ST TO VOTE!!!
IF YOU DON’T KNOW SOME OF THE NOMINEES YOU CAN SKIP
AND I WOULD SKIP, SKIP, SKIP FOR JOY JUST KNOWING THAT YOU THOUGHT OF ME AND VOTED FOR MY BLACK..WELL YOU KNOW!
LOVE AND LIGHT!

WHEN SEARCHING THE INTERNET FOR EXCESS INFORMATION ON THIS TOPIC, THERE IS LITTLE OUT THERE. I WANT TO HELP CLEAR UP ALOT OF MISCONCEPTIONS BY GIVING SOME INFO FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE AS A TRANS WOMAN.
WE KNOW THAT THE SPECTRUM OF SEXUALITY CAN BE WIDE, BUT FOR THE MOST PART, HETEROSEXUALLY IDENTIFIED MEN WHO DATE OR FIND INTEREST IN TRANSGENDER/TRANSEXUAL WOMEN ARE STILL HETEROSEXUAL. THEY ARE NOT GAY. I REPEAT, THEY ARE NOT GAY. I BELIEVE THE CONFUSION COMES FROM THIS IDEA: A TRANS WOMAN WAS ONCE MALE AT SOME POINT IN HER PAST LIFE, AND BECAUSE SHE PHYSICALLY BEGAN LIFE AS A MALE, SHE IS A MAN. THEREFORE, A GUY THAT IS ATTRACTED TO HER IS GAY AND LIKES ANOTHER MAN.
THIS THEORY DEFINITELY HAS RELEVANCY, BUT NOT TRUE. THERE ARE FACTORS THAT CHANGE THE SITUATION. THE TRANS WOMAN IS LIVING HER LIFE 24/7 AS A FEMALE. SHE IDENTIFIES AS FEMALE AND HER DEEPEST PASSION IS TO BE SEEN AS FEMALE, WHILE BEING WITH A MAN WHO RESPECTS THAT. THERE ARE STRAIGHT IDENTIFIED MEN WHO SECRETLY JUST WANT TO BE WITH ANOTHER MAN,AND NEED A WAY TO BUILD UP TO COMING OUT, BUT THE MEN WE DATE ARE SPECIFICALLY INTO THE AESTHETIC OF WHAT A WOMAN EMBODIES. THESE FACTORS ARE FEMININE APPEARANCE, ATTITUDE, SOCIAL OUTLOOK, PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES. TRANS WOMEN GO TO GREAT LENGTHS TO RE-CONSTRUCT THEIR LIVES AS THE GENDER THEY MENTALLY IDENTIFY AS. THE MALE IDENTITY IS AN EXPERIENCE THAT IS PAST. PHYSICAL CHANGES FROM SURGERY AND FEMALE HORMONES ARE A NEW LEASE ON LIFE IN THE CORRECT GENDER.
THE COMBINATION OF A TRANS WOMAN’S SOUL AND MIND IDENTITY WITH FEMALE HORMONES CREATES SOMETHING SOOO MUCH MORE CLOSE TO WHAT A BIOLOGICAL WOMAN EXPERIENCES. THE EMOTIONS, THE MOODS, THE RECEPTION TO OTHER PEOPLE. .

HERE IS A GREAT ANONYMOUS QUOTE FROM A STRAIGHT MALE

“My girlfriend is trans, I love her, I am grateful to have her. When I first met her she was not yet “out” with her transition, but I knew from the moment I met her that she was a woman, it wasn’t about her looks, it was about her spirit. I have friends that a post-op, pre-op, and non-op, what makes then women is there mind.”

HOW DOES A STRAIGHT MAN KNOW HE IS ATTRACTED TO OR INTO A TS WOMAN???
SOMETIMES HE IS AWARE FROM PREVIOUS EXPERIENCES, HEARING ABOUT IT OR THE INTERNET AND SOMETIMES IT HAPPENS BY ACCIDENT. WHEN A GUY SEES A WOMAN HE IS ATTRACTED TO HE MAY MAKE A MOVE. HE MAY NOT KNOW SHE IS TRANS INITIALLY, BUT SEES THE TRUE BEAUTY OF WHO SHE PROJECTS HERSELF TO BE… A WOMAN. HE IS GETTING THE REFLECTION OF HOW SHE SEES HERSELF. IT CAN BE A STIMULATING AND ENIGMATIC THING FOR A STRAIGHT GUY TO FIND THAT A WOMAN HE’S INTO USED TO BE A MAN. IT SPARKS MANY THOUGHTS OF CURIOSITY AND DESIRE. THE UNIQUENESS INTRIGUES HIM..

WHAT IF SHE IS PRE-OP? OR HAS NOT HAD GENITAL SURGERY??

MANY TS WOMEN DO NOT HAVE FULL GENITAL SURGERY AND THAT IS BECAUSE THEY FEEL WHAT THEY HAVE MAKES THEM UNIQUE, OR THEY HAVE LEARNED TO COPE WITH IT. THERE ARE ALSO MANY MEN THAT SPECIFICALLY LIKE TRANS WOMEN FOR THE FACT THAT THEY ARE WOMEN, BUT A BIT DIFFERENT. THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS.AND, MANY SIMPLY CANNOT AFFORD THE COST, BECAUSE IT IS MAJORLY EXPENSIVE. HAVING EITHER A PENIS OR VAGINA DOES NOT MAKE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. IN A CULTURE WHERE WERE TAUGHT TO BELIEVE THAT OUR GENITALIA DEFINE US, THIS CAN BE HARD TO GRASP. SURELY, THERE ARE STRAIGHT MEN WHO ARE NOT INTERESTED IN A TRANS WOMAN WITH A PENIS , BUT MAY BE EXTREMELY ATTRACTED TO HER. SOME OF THEM CAN LOOK PAST THIS, AND SOME CANNOT. HOW FAR THEIR RELATIONSHIP GOES IS DEPENDENT ON HER BEING A GREAT PERSON, WHAT THEY’RE LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN AND CHEMISTRY. SOME MEN ARE SIMPLY CURIOUS AND GROW TO LIKE THE UNIQUENESS OF A TRANS WOMAN..BUT STILL HAVE NO DESIRE TO BE WITH A MAN.

THE STIGMA THAT MEN WHO DATE TRANS WOMAN ARE GAY IS DAMAGING TO THE WELL BEING OF HEALTHY PEOPLE IN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. THERE ARE TOO MANY HETEROSEXUAL MEN SECRETLY DATING TRANS WOMAN ON THE DOWN LOW, BECAUSE THEY FEAR BEING CONSIDERED GAY, WHEN IN FACT THEY LIKE WOMEN. MANY TRANS WOMAN ARE NEGATED HAPPY AND HEALTHY SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH THESE MEN BECAUSE OF THEIR FAMILY AND FRIENDS PERCEPTIONS.
AND FRANKLY, MANY TRANS WOMEN LOOK BETTER THAN BIOLOGICAL WOMEN, BECAUSE THEY TAKE MUCH MORE PRIDE IN THEIR FEMININITY. THEY PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR LOOKS, AND THEY EMBRACE FEMININE THINGS WITH SA PASSION THAT ATTRACTS MEN. STRAIGHT MEN.

WHAT ARE YOU THOUGHTS?? I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW.

A TISKIT, A TASKIT..HER WEAVE’S AN EASTER BASKET!!!
TOO MANY THINGS FOR WORDS..AND MY FAVORITE YOUTUBE VIDEO OF THE MOMENT IS “SHOCANTELLE’S” HAIR SALON!!
THIS IS LIFE.
CAN YOU GUESS THE ACTRESS??