ITS A MONDAY NIGHT AND YOU’RE BORED OR DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO IN THE CITY?!?!
COME TO MY WEEKLY YOUTUBE SHOW..”SENSATIONS” @ THERAPY BAR (52ND BTW 8TH AND 9TH)
11PM SHARP!

MY 1ST SINGLE AND MY 1ST OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO!!
MY FAVE PART IS WHEN TRAVIS WALL, IVAN KOUMAYEV AND I TEAR UP THE DANCE FLOOR RIGHT BEFORE THE BRIDGE!! SOO MUCH FUN DANCING WITH THEM.
THE SONG IS STILL AVAILABLE ON ITUNES..AND NOW THERE IS A SICKENING REMIX TOO.
THEY’RE HOT PARTY TRACKS..SO GET EM’!
AND GET READY FOR MY NEW STUFF..CAUSE ITS BANANASSSSSSSS!
BH IS MILA JAM!

VOTE FOR BRITNEY HOUSTON AS TRANS PERFORMER OF THE YEAR AT WWW.GOOTHMAG.COM

IT IS A FAIRLY NEW MAGAZINE IN THE GAY SCENE THAT UPDATES YOU ON EVENTS IN THE CITY OF NEW YORK!
YOU HAVE TIL AUG. 1ST TO VOTE!!!
IF YOU DON’T KNOW SOME OF THE NOMINEES YOU CAN SKIP
AND I WOULD SKIP, SKIP, SKIP FOR JOY JUST KNOWING THAT YOU THOUGHT OF ME AND VOTED FOR MY BLACK..WELL YOU KNOW!
LOVE AND LIGHT!

WHEN SEARCHING THE INTERNET FOR EXCESS INFORMATION ON THIS TOPIC, THERE IS LITTLE OUT THERE. I WANT TO HELP CLEAR UP ALOT OF MISCONCEPTIONS BY GIVING SOME INFO FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE AS A TRANS WOMAN.
WE KNOW THAT THE SPECTRUM OF SEXUALITY CAN BE WIDE, BUT FOR THE MOST PART, HETEROSEXUALLY IDENTIFIED MEN WHO DATE OR FIND INTEREST IN TRANSGENDER/TRANSEXUAL WOMEN ARE STILL HETEROSEXUAL. THEY ARE NOT GAY. I REPEAT, THEY ARE NOT GAY. I BELIEVE THE CONFUSION COMES FROM THIS IDEA: A TRANS WOMAN WAS ONCE MALE AT SOME POINT IN HER PAST LIFE, AND BECAUSE SHE PHYSICALLY BEGAN LIFE AS A MALE, SHE IS A MAN. THEREFORE, A GUY THAT IS ATTRACTED TO HER IS GAY AND LIKES ANOTHER MAN.
THIS THEORY DEFINITELY HAS RELEVANCY, BUT NOT TRUE. THERE ARE FACTORS THAT CHANGE THE SITUATION. THE TRANS WOMAN IS LIVING HER LIFE 24/7 AS A FEMALE. SHE IDENTIFIES AS FEMALE AND HER DEEPEST PASSION IS TO BE SEEN AS FEMALE, WHILE BEING WITH A MAN WHO RESPECTS THAT. THERE ARE STRAIGHT IDENTIFIED MEN WHO SECRETLY JUST WANT TO BE WITH ANOTHER MAN,AND NEED A WAY TO BUILD UP TO COMING OUT, BUT THE MEN WE DATE ARE SPECIFICALLY INTO THE AESTHETIC OF WHAT A WOMAN EMBODIES. THESE FACTORS ARE FEMININE APPEARANCE, ATTITUDE, SOCIAL OUTLOOK, PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES. TRANS WOMEN GO TO GREAT LENGTHS TO RE-CONSTRUCT THEIR LIVES AS THE GENDER THEY MENTALLY IDENTIFY AS. THE MALE IDENTITY IS AN EXPERIENCE THAT IS PAST. PHYSICAL CHANGES FROM SURGERY AND FEMALE HORMONES ARE A NEW LEASE ON LIFE IN THE CORRECT GENDER.
THE COMBINATION OF A TRANS WOMAN’S SOUL AND MIND IDENTITY WITH FEMALE HORMONES CREATES SOMETHING SOOO MUCH MORE CLOSE TO WHAT A BIOLOGICAL WOMAN EXPERIENCES. THE EMOTIONS, THE MOODS, THE RECEPTION TO OTHER PEOPLE. .

HERE IS A GREAT ANONYMOUS QUOTE FROM A STRAIGHT MALE

“My girlfriend is trans, I love her, I am grateful to have her. When I first met her she was not yet “out” with her transition, but I knew from the moment I met her that she was a woman, it wasn’t about her looks, it was about her spirit. I have friends that a post-op, pre-op, and non-op, what makes then women is there mind.”

HOW DOES A STRAIGHT MAN KNOW HE IS ATTRACTED TO OR INTO A TS WOMAN???
SOMETIMES HE IS AWARE FROM PREVIOUS EXPERIENCES, HEARING ABOUT IT OR THE INTERNET AND SOMETIMES IT HAPPENS BY ACCIDENT. WHEN A GUY SEES A WOMAN HE IS ATTRACTED TO HE MAY MAKE A MOVE. HE MAY NOT KNOW SHE IS TRANS INITIALLY, BUT SEES THE TRUE BEAUTY OF WHO SHE PROJECTS HERSELF TO BE… A WOMAN. HE IS GETTING THE REFLECTION OF HOW SHE SEES HERSELF. IT CAN BE A STIMULATING AND ENIGMATIC THING FOR A STRAIGHT GUY TO FIND THAT A WOMAN HE’S INTO USED TO BE A MAN. IT SPARKS MANY THOUGHTS OF CURIOSITY AND DESIRE. THE UNIQUENESS INTRIGUES HIM..

WHAT IF SHE IS PRE-OP? OR HAS NOT HAD GENITAL SURGERY??

MANY TS WOMEN DO NOT HAVE FULL GENITAL SURGERY AND THAT IS BECAUSE THEY FEEL WHAT THEY HAVE MAKES THEM UNIQUE, OR THEY HAVE LEARNED TO COPE WITH IT. THERE ARE ALSO MANY MEN THAT SPECIFICALLY LIKE TRANS WOMEN FOR THE FACT THAT THEY ARE WOMEN, BUT A BIT DIFFERENT. THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS.AND, MANY SIMPLY CANNOT AFFORD THE COST, BECAUSE IT IS MAJORLY EXPENSIVE. HAVING EITHER A PENIS OR VAGINA DOES NOT MAKE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. IN A CULTURE WHERE WERE TAUGHT TO BELIEVE THAT OUR GENITALIA DEFINE US, THIS CAN BE HARD TO GRASP. SURELY, THERE ARE STRAIGHT MEN WHO ARE NOT INTERESTED IN A TRANS WOMAN WITH A PENIS , BUT MAY BE EXTREMELY ATTRACTED TO HER. SOME OF THEM CAN LOOK PAST THIS, AND SOME CANNOT. HOW FAR THEIR RELATIONSHIP GOES IS DEPENDENT ON HER BEING A GREAT PERSON, WHAT THEY’RE LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN AND CHEMISTRY. SOME MEN ARE SIMPLY CURIOUS AND GROW TO LIKE THE UNIQUENESS OF A TRANS WOMAN..BUT STILL HAVE NO DESIRE TO BE WITH A MAN.

THE STIGMA THAT MEN WHO DATE TRANS WOMAN ARE GAY IS DAMAGING TO THE WELL BEING OF HEALTHY PEOPLE IN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. THERE ARE TOO MANY HETEROSEXUAL MEN SECRETLY DATING TRANS WOMAN ON THE DOWN LOW, BECAUSE THEY FEAR BEING CONSIDERED GAY, WHEN IN FACT THEY LIKE WOMEN. MANY TRANS WOMAN ARE NEGATED HAPPY AND HEALTHY SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH THESE MEN BECAUSE OF THEIR FAMILY AND FRIENDS PERCEPTIONS.
AND FRANKLY, MANY TRANS WOMEN LOOK BETTER THAN BIOLOGICAL WOMEN, BECAUSE THEY TAKE MUCH MORE PRIDE IN THEIR FEMININITY. THEY PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR LOOKS, AND THEY EMBRACE FEMININE THINGS WITH SA PASSION THAT ATTRACTS MEN. STRAIGHT MEN.

WHAT ARE YOU THOUGHTS?? I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW.

A TISKIT, A TASKIT..HER WEAVE’S AN EASTER BASKET!!!
TOO MANY THINGS FOR WORDS..AND MY FAVORITE YOUTUBE VIDEO OF THE MOMENT IS “SHOCANTELLE’S” HAIR SALON!!
THIS IS LIFE.
CAN YOU GUESS THE ACTRESS??

FINALLY, MORE WORLD PROGRESSION! CONGRATS TO ALL THE ARGENTINES WHO ARE NOW ABLE TO BE OUT, PROUD AND MARRIED. THIS SHOULD BE OLD NEWS..NOT NEW NEWS..BUT ALAS, IT IS FINALLY NEWS!! BUT, BEFORE YOU PACK UP AND RUN TO BUENOS AIRES, YOU HAVE TO BE A CITIZEN OR RESIDENT.
CHEERS!

Argentina legalized same-sex marriage Thursday, becoming the first country in Latin America to declare that gays and lesbians have all the legal rights, responsibilities and protections that marriage brings to heterosexual couples.
After a marathon debate in Argentina’s senate, 33 lawmakers voted in favor, 27 against and 3 abstained in a vote that ended after 4 a.m. Since the lower house already approved it and President Cristina Fernandez is a strong supporter, it becomes law as soon as it is published in the official bulletin, which should happen within days.
The law is sure to bring a wave of marriages by gays and lesbians who have found Buenos Aires to be a welcoming place to live. But same-sex couples from other countries shouldn’t rush their Argentine wedding plans, since only citizens and residents can wed in the country, and the necessary documents can take months to obtain. While it makes some amendments to the civil code, many other aspects of family law will have to be changed.

IT IS JULY 15TH AND FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DO NOT KNOW, EVERY JULY 15TH IS THE OFFICIAL HOLIDAY FOR POP SUPERSTAR JACKIE WASHINGTON!! DON’T KNOW WHO SHE IS! OMG..SHE’S BIGGER THAN WHITNEY, MARIAH, CELINE, SHIRLEY BASSEY (WHO’S DEAD)..OH NO WAIT, SHIRLEY AIN’Y DEAD…BUT GOD BLESS HER!
LEARN ABOUT THE DIVA THAT IS JACKIE..AND LET’S ALL CELEBRATE THIS DAY SPREADING OUR OWN DIVANESS!!

ALSO, HERE IS A CLIP OF THE WOMAN, THE IDOL, JENIFER LEWIS. I WAS SPENDING A LOVELY DAY WITH MY BEST FRIEND DWAYNE (WHO WORKED WITH LEWIS ON BROADWAY IN HAIRSPRAY) WHEN WE BUMPED INTO JENIFER. SHE IS SIMPLY ONE OF A KIND AND NEVER PLAYS IT SAFE. THIS IS WHY I LOVE HER. OH, AND IN THE CLIP..SHE’S TELLING A STORY ABOUT PEOPLE ON THE SUBWAY SAYING SHE’S A MOVIE STAR, BUT SHE TELLS THEM HER NAME IS SHERYL LEE RALPH!!

AND, BESIDES ACTUALLY KNOWING LADY LEWIS..MY MOTHER WORKED @ AT&T ALONGSIDE JACKIE’S DAUGHTER “ANTANDRA” (T.V. BLAKE) IN CHICAGO IN THE 80′S!!!
I MUST BE A BASTARD CHILD OF JACKIE’S, WITH ALL THESE CONNECTIONS!
CAUSE WHAT? THANK YOU..SAY NO MORE!!

THIS IS MY NEW JAM (MILA JAM..WINK WINK)
NOT ONLY IS HE SWEXY..BUT THIS ISH IS HAHLARIOUS! IT IS RIGHT ON POINT WITH ALL THE MYSPACE-ISMS ON GIRLS PROFILES ABOUT BEING MODELS.
THIS IS SORTA PRICELESS..AND WHERE CAN I FIND HIM!?
LOL

THAT DOESN’T MAKE YOU A MODEL

THIS VIDEO IS NOT ONLY MADE TO TONE YOUR THIGHS AND SET YOUR GLUTES..IT WILL BRING A NICE, HAPPY WTF?!?!? TO YOUR FACE.
IF YOU WATCH THE WHOLE 10 MIN. VIDEO..YOU ARE CRAZY; OR AT LEAST DO THE EXERCISE AND BE ABLE TO GET INTO THOSE ‘APPLE BOTTOM’ JEANS
RIDE THE ROCKIN’ HORSE!! YEEEEHAW!!!

SO YOU’RE PROBABLY WONDERING WHATS GOING ON WITH
MILAJAM MUSIC!!!

WELL, 1ST OF ALL..WE GOTTA KEEP THE SUSPENSE GOING, BECAUSE WHEN I SAY THAT MY NEW MUSIC IS THE REAL THING..IT IS THE REEEEEAAALL THING! ONLY A SELECT FEW PEOPLE HAVE HEARD SOME OF THE STUFF, BUT YOUR TURN IS COMING.

2ND, I’M WORKING ON THE VIDEO FOR MY 1ST SINGLE AS MILA JAM..AND I AM SUPER EXCITED. THE SINGLE IS A CONTAGIOUS ENERGIZER BUNNY BEAT DRIVEN CLUB MONSTER THAT HAS SUSPENSE AND BUILD. IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I’M IN A CAR CHASE IN ONE OF MY FAVORITE CAR ARCADE GAMES ‘CRUISIN WORLD’!!!
I WILL UPDATE YOU WITH THE TTLE OF THE SINGLE WITHIN THE NEXT WEEK..
I WILL KEEP YOU POSTED ON THE RELEASE AND VIDEO. IF YOU KNOW MY SINGLE AS BRITNEY HOUSTON (AND THE CROWD GOES) THEN GET READY FOR THE NEXT LEVEL OF MY MUSIC. AND, IF YOU DON’T..GO TO ITUNES AND GET “AND THE CROWD GOES”!! I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THE REMIX! HAS A SICK BEAT!